Guilt Free Creativity
Doing it for the kids!
This week, we have escaped in our caravan for the school holidays. Apart from board games, bikes and the beach, it’s up to my kids to make their own fun. I’m taking a few moments to work on some beautiful hand-made products to be released in the CQB store very soon and I’m doing it guilt free – because I know that the act of engaging myself in creative tasks isn’t beneficial just for me, but for the kids too.
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Parenting is hard work, and at times I find it suffocating. I spend the majority of my life trying to be the ideal parent and the most effective teacher I can be, but I’m a dreamer who is also constantly trying to keep up with the call of creativity. To allow myself to be in the healthiest state both mentally and emotionally, I need to ensure I make time for my personal projects, and I do it guilt free because I know that in doing so, I am instilling creative values in my children.
Researchers have long been promoting the benefits of developing creative capacity in children. The web is flooded with activities and projects that you can do with your child to help them become a divergent thinker, but few have considered the impact of the creative parent. Children certainly learn though engagement in activities, and that is the approach that schools are taking, but that’s not how I got here. I didn’t learn to ‘be creative’ at school, I got here because creativity was valued in our home.
Children are products of the environment they grow up in. I have been in the teaching game long enough to know that this is 100% true. Our parents are the first and most influential teachers we will ever have in our lives.
Meet our dad- This guy is pretty extraordinary. He literally has the fix to everything. When I was young, I watched as he fixed cars, motorcycles, electrical appliances and built houses. One day, after having tinkered with sailboats for as long as I can remember, he came up with a hair brained idea to build an 11 meter catamaran in our backyard. Sure enough, two years later he launched his hand crafted project. Thankfully, it didn’t sink. Dad spent many, many hours building, hours that he could have possibly spent with his family, but there was still always enough love for us kids. Whilst the tangible product of his creative pursuits was a beautiful boat that we later spent many hours as a family on, the positive effects were far wider reaching than he realises.
Dad building the boat in our backyard
While he was pouring his blood, sweat and tears into his big creative risk, us kids were watching. We were watching as the many planks of western red cedar were put together like a puzzle to form the boat, and we were watching when things didn’t always go as planned and Dad crankily persevered until he came up with a solution. This simple act of being a witness to someone being extraordinarily creative, provided me with the determination, grit and perseverance to see a tricky project through, and that constant desire to build/make something with my bare hands. All because I wanted to be like my mentor.
The finished boat – on the water!
By modelling creative and problem-solving behaviours, we can develop far greater creative values for our children than any activity can. You don’t need any special gifts or talents to do this. The simple act of decorating your home, rearranging furniture or tinkering with something that is broken are all activities that foster creative values in the home. Take interesting holidays, turn off the TV and let the kids experience boredom, so that they can invent their own games and be rewarded for it. Let them watch, and be inspired by the projects you are involved in.
That’s why this week on school holiday break, I’m not allowing myself to be bothered by the cries of boredom from my kids. I’m allowing them to find their own creativity, and to be witness to the creative values I’m busily instilling into their little lives- guilt free!
CATE’s TOP THREE TAKEAWAY’s
- Guilt free creativity – because I know that the act of engaging myself in creative tasks isn’t beneficial just for me, but for the kids too.
- As parents we are the first and most influential teachers of creativity in our children’s lives.
- By modelling creative and problem-solving behaviours, we can develop far greater creative values for our children than any activity can.
This simple act of being a witness to someone being extraordinarily creative, provided me with the determination, grit and perseverance to see a tricky project through, and that constant desire to build/make something with my bare hands.
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We are very very proud of all our creative children. As parents and now grandparents, it is our reward if you like, for a better way to explain it, to witness the chaotic, rambling and frustrating years of our parenting, with never a moment to contemplate what we were doing and what the outcome of that parenting would be until now. It is the greatest feeling witnessing the creative ideas and talents all our children have and the way in which you all express that. So, the reward is…we must have done something right, so we sit back and bask in the wonder of you all. Oh and you are great parents, who have the insight of knowing how to be the best you can be. We love you all so much and are so grateful this creative journey allows us to witness that. Well done. Much love XX